Self love and acceptance

Everyone does the best they can in the moment.

.. it is helpful to consider mental and emotional health.

We don’t know what we don’t know. We cannot feel what we cannot feel.

When you accept yourself, you can accept others.

Can you accept and forgive yourself that you did your best at the time?

Let it go. You did your best with what you had available.

Let it go.

If they deserve forgiveness, you do too!

Journaling…

Each day brings new chances, new life.

Depending on your perspective, you may be near, far, somewhere in between what feels good.

How does change start? Where can it lead?

It can happen in an instant, and effort is required. There may be some significant discomfort, and that’s okay. 

Sometimes doing it in the dark can feel scary. Confusing. You want to rely on all the senses that you brought to that point, and I don’t blame you if you try.

I presently am experiencing a year full of change. It arrived when I least expected it. Grateful for it.

It occurred suddenly and with some fright. There was confusion over why, and still remains unclear in many ways. 

Regardless, it’s happening. Would I like to know where it goes? Yes. Is there a manual or map for this new territory? Nope. Will I ever give up? Not a chance. 

I am a bit of a stranger in the same land, and it looks so different. Diving in.. 

All of my usual and familiar tools don’t apply here, I’ve got to lead and act from my core, believing all will be okay. 

I am writing this in raw fashion to get it out, in hopes it may touch someone else in this experience. 

Today, in addition to my family, friends, this beautiful world we live in, I am especially appreciative of doing things right the first time. 

Maybe that starts with worth. No wrong answers here. This is just my best present understanding.  Caring enough about yourself to do things with joy, your best effort, magnetized to things that feel right seems the best path. Easiest to be an “A” student, kinda thought. Without your worth, you can find yourself accommodating, compromising, and wandering from your heart. Next thing you know it is possible you aren’t clear what you like, full of distractions, and not able to offer your best self to others, not growing as much. 

Knowing what you like is big.

I visualize clarity as a nice balance between your heart and your head. The best place to be.

Seems to me, if you always keep pace with your heart, thinking and analyzing is the easy part.

Taking such things for granted on this beautiful world while time passes is not conducive to growth. Life constantly offers opportunities to grow. You can change. 

This isn’t excuse as much as possible cause and effect. It is a loving observation, to lead from your good heart so you can embrace change. 

Change is happening. Would I like to know where it goes? Yes. Is there a manual or map for this new territory? Nope. Will I ever give up? No way! Life is such a gift! This will all be okay as long as I continue to care and try. 

Health is so important.

Change is always happening. 

It’s okay to let go a little, relax, prioritize, reload.

You don’t have to know to try. If you need to heal, heal. If you need a break, take one. But don’t make it a lifestyle. We all need rest. Especially if not feeling our best. Ultimately, I think it’s best to be in motion, growing, living. 

Get or do what you need to get on track, be your best. You are worth it. Think of all the good you will do!

Change can be step by step, or you can be flung through the air head over heels like shot from a tightly coiled medieval catapult. -Either way life’ll change ya’. If you’re fortunate and live long, either way, life’ll fix ya’. I say that humbly, and with a lot of respect for what an incredible gift life offers. 

For me, right now, that is the best way I can possibly explain it. Did I mention change is happening? Check with me tomorrow.

Happy New Year!

Lead from your chest

I have a friend that wrote a nice and memorable song..

I don’t remember the words, if there were additional words..?

But I do remember the chorus.

“Lead on, lead from where you are”

So much insight there. Thanks John.

My feeling from it..

Wherever you are, you are ready to go in a wonderful and real direction if you show yourself honesty over your true feelings, a little compassion, truth and empowerment in that moment of realization.

Take time with yourself. Be gentle with yourself.

For me, I appreciated the words as much as I could. Sounded wise, deep.

I think I understand it more today than ever.

You can have all the thoughts, judgements, opinions, you can imagine. In my opinion, and learning currently in my experience, you are much closer in reality to where your true feelings exist.

Keep your heart with you, step by step, and good will always come.

Love you all!

All you are..

When you remember, you return.

When you return, you remember.

You are always there, you are always here.

There is never a moment when you are not.

The collective is you, holds you as the highest love, sees you for who you are.

Every bit of you is made from love.

It is all in you. Just relax, let it flow through you as it already does.

Peace is here. You are eternal love.

Heart Minded

What if you just support the good stuff?

Now that is intentional focus!

Love is all that really matters.

Be Good. Share good. Be You! ❤️

Kaleidoscope

If you get to feeling isolated, down, different, know we are all one.

A lot of messaging nowadays encourages individuality. It is good to act on your own accord, be different as your heart intends. After all, we all are a unique collection of the universal orchestration, all with our own tuning and life to live. In my opinion, part of this life is acting on your own free will, choosing, being accountable, and learning. Just as wonderful plants and animals meet the needs of their environment, so do we.

But.. What made us? Where do we come from? What set this fantastic life wand world all into motion? Do we see the same sky, same sun, feel the tides as they come and go? Is the We have the same needs. Water, nutrition, love, air to breathe, the pursuit of our individual dreams.

Lead from your heart, try, succeed, cry. It’s all part of it. Life is better that way. It not only feels better, but life is much easier, when you are an A+ effort life student. Keep learning. Keep Growing. Keep LOVING all the unique colors of the rainbow. Celebrate rather than feel threatened by difference.

Everyone their own journey, and you have yours.

We are all one! ❤️

Worth

It is unacceptable for me to feel unloved or un-special. 

I am part of a magnificent loving sum, and yet, unique, capable of anything i desire.

What I can do is anything I want. 

What I can create is endless. 

I am eternal, yet fragile. I am strong, and weakness can exist. Brave, yet fear is available, and the structure to guide me is deeper and more wise than I may be able to comprehend. 

Know love is a key part of what made ME, activates my cells, pumps my heart, admires beauty, as i so often do. 

The good is always there, and the lesser option, too. There is no limit to me, maximized and compounded by the collective sum. 

Greatness is at my fingertips, streaming from my soul in this life through forms of consciousness.

If I am reading this and have been experiencing fear, pain, anxiety, shame, I may be as close to greatness now than when most comfortable. Be encouraged in the dark, and embrace the unlimited love when it is time. Trust it is there for me, made from me, from it, and it always remains. 

Though, if this is not the moment, there is always the next. I am special, capable of kindness, compassion, love, anything, that I desire. 

Be aware of surroundings, what feels good, what does not. Be aware if I am unaware. Ultimately, i know and that path is there. 

It is a lesson, a reminder, that i come from love. Being uncomfortable is my body’s healthy response, the collective embracing me pointing me towards my true nature, love. 

No shame! Yes peace! Be great. Allow love. It’s all in me. My role is to joyously and lovingly fulfill, just as others. There is no other me. 

Respect my journey. Respect all journeys.

I am love. I am always loved!

This is for me, and this is proof.  

I am and I am excited!